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The Bedroom is for Expression, Not Suppression
Three Types of Sex All Couples Need
Things that make you go 'mmm' and things that make you go 'ngh'
Libido - the Interplay of Desire & Arousal
The Good and Bad of Porn
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
A Bit About My Journey
Seven Sex Tips for Busy People
Penises Love A Soft Touch
Share Before You Fix
The Best Thing A Father Can Do
The Exquisiteness of a Relaxed Vagina
The Look of Love - Eye-gazing
Quanta of Deliciousness
Maintaining the “Mmm-Factor”
How to Have 'Dirty' Sex With Someone You Love
Seven Benefits of Attending A LoveLife Couples Tantra Retreat
Make Sex Your Hobby
Partnered Sex is Not Solo Sex for Two
Your Partner Can’t Be Everything to You
Sex is Good, Sleep is Better!
Living La Vida Tantrika
Be Kind - It Works
Good Rest=Good Sex
We Need Bliss
Receptive is not Passive
So Much Love
A High-Level Relationship is a High-Maintenance Relationship
Sex as Spiritual Practice
Playing with the Yin and Yang of Sex
The Yin and Yang of Sex
Third Level Love-Making
Vive La Difference!
Taking a Marriage Sabbatical
The Basic Sexual Unit is One
A Penis is for Connection, not Penetration
Men Have Not Evolved to 'Sow Their Seed Widely'
Big Sex is Beautiful Sex
Women Are Not 'Naturally' Monogomous
Sex Therapy & Couples Retreats- What to do if You have a Reluctant Partner
The Chilled Build - Sympathetic Arousal vs Parasympathetic Arousal
Mums and Dads Need “Cuddle Time”
Good Head Does Not Mean Simulating A Vacuum Cleaner
Is Porn Making Women Less Feminine?
Is Porn Making Men Less Masculine?
The Three Pillars of Love
Seven Benefits of Attending a Couples Retreat
Solo Cultivation for Men
Our Bodies Thrive on Pleasure
Love, Death and Vulnerability
Toys for Grown-Ups
The Sexual Glutton vs The Sexual Gourmet
The Picnic Approach to Sex
Practice Expressing Your Feelings For Greater Connection and Better Sex
Let’s Talk About Our Sex
Love Your Breasts
Ditch the Sex Myths
Relax Into Orgasm
When A Woman Is Free To Be Herself Sex Takes On A Spiritual Dimension
It All Starts With a Kiss…
The Ecstasy is in the Spaces In-Between
Strength in Softness, Softness in Strength
Your New Year's Resolution - Have Better Sex
Peace, Pleasure and Goodwill to All
Come From A Place of "Yes!"
Reluctance is Not Frigidity, It’s Body Intelligence - She’s Not Ready!
The Art of Mindful Sex - why it’s worth studying!
Love Thy Partner
‘Invitation’ not ‘Penetration’
Female Bodies Are Sexual Pleasure Machines
Neuroplasticity and Moulding Your Brain for Better Sex
Awaken Your Vagina for the Kind of Sex All Women (and their Partners) Deserve
Bonking on the Right Side of the Brain
Have Sex with God…
So Many Boxes - So Little Freedom
How to Move Forward When Your Partner Has Betrayed You
The Reason Why Humans Are So Sexual
Men are from Earth, Women are from Earth
Make Love Like You’re Playing An Instrument For Ultimate Sensual Pleasure
How to Talk to Kids About Sex - and why you need to
Inviting A Third (or fourth or more…) - the right way to play
Viagra for Women - why the pink pill is wrong, wrong, wrong
Does Size Really Matter?
Our Bodies Are the Best Sex Toy Ever
Honour Your Genitals for Exquisite Sex - the Why and How
Tango Tantra - Make Your Love Life Blissfully Connected
Move Beyond Sleaze and Shame and Discover The Third Wave of Sexuality
DIY Porn - It’s A Fun Way to Add Spice to Your Love Life
Don’t Fake It Till You Make It - ‘Cause You Won’t Make It
Give Your Man Absolute Pleasure...Try Prostate Massage
Don't Spend a Fortune on Toys - There’s A Sex Store in Your Pantry!
Can Fisting Be Fabulous?
Turning Sex Lives Upside-Down - It’s My Life’s Work!
We’re All Individuals! There are Spectra of Sexuality
The Way of the Householder - how to make the everyday sublime
Ten Reasons Why Married Women Have Affairs, and What To Do When She Does
Mutual Pleasure Requires Mutual Responsibility - how to expand your sex play safely
Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down - how to add restraint to your sex life
The Man Leads, the Woman Embellishes
Unblock Sexual Energy for Greater Love
Heightening Sensory Pleasure
All My Appearances Talking Sex on ABC Nightlife
Explore Your Fantasies
Luscious Woman Online Program Released
Become a Great Lover, a Black Belt in the Bedroom
Meet the Seven Sex Goddesses in my new book of educational erotica!
Make Love to Yourself
30 Nights of Nookie!
Celibacy, Sexuality and Spirituality
The Clitoris Is Not an On-Off Button
Spice Alone Tastes Terrible...
Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Growing Better With Age
Learning Tantra in Paradise
What’s Your Eroticism - Intimate, Wild, Fun?
A Multitude of Orgasmic Possibilities
Space is Erotic
Why Porn Doesn’t Often Work For Women
When He’s Lost Interest
Sex Through Non-Sex
Get A Life! Your Sex Drive Needs the Dopamine
If Sex Hurts, Change What You’re Doing
The “Horny Face”
Some Words for the Lower Desire Partner
Trust Your Body
Flat-lining or Surfing?
Love is all so there’s no need to fear the dark
Planning for Pleasure
Make the Lead-Up Erotic
Turn Yourself On and the World Turns On To You
Advice from Japanese Grandmothers on How to Be Beautiful
If You Want A Mature Relationship You Have To Be Mature
Take Your Penis for a Walk!
How Often Should We Have Sex?
Know Your Sexual Rhythm
Slay the Pink Elephants!
An Erection Does Not Have To Be Serviced
The Tantric Lounge Radio Show - Talking Sex, Science and Spirituality
What Do Men Love Best About Sex?
Sex Doesn't Have to Involve the Genitals
Fetishes are Fine
Obligation Sex is Self-Imposed Low-Level Sexual Trauma
Intensity Repels, Enticement Attracts. Like Chocolate Cake.
Porn Star vs Prude
Winter's a Time for Sexual Growth
Meditate Your Way to Great Sex
A Beautiful Vulva is Like A Luscious Hamburger
My Ejaculation Opens the Door to Deeper Orgasm
To Come or Not To Come
10 Tips For Your Vagina
Fill Up Your Self Love Tank
On Being Real
The Number One Secret to Good Sex
Get A Whole New View of Sex
The Cup of Tea Approach to Sexual Self-Coaching
Renegotiate Your Contract
Trust Means Being OK with Not Knowing
Sex and Our Multiple Brains
“When One is Pretending, the Whole Body Revolts”
We Judge ‘Normal’ on Our Own Experiences
Sex is a Normal Part of Life
An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away
Stocking Up Your Love Larder
Is “Good Enough” Sex Good Enough?
Teaching Sex Therapists Tantra
You Can Make Love With Just a Kiss
There Is Always A Lower Desire Partner
Crafting the Balance
Sexual, Spiritual Business Leaders
Positive Messages in 50 Shades of Grey
Playing with Pleasure and Pain
The Sensual Dom(me)
Pelvic Floor Pleasures - Advanced
Three Good Reasons To Read Erotica
Erotica or Sleaze
Pelvic Floor Pleasures - The Basics
Tools for Self-Validation from a Luscious Woman
Mastering The Art Of Vaginal Stimulation
G, A and Ohhhh-Spots
The Tantric Quickie
Why A Masculine Man Would Want A Choosy Woman
Sink In to Sync In
One Couple's "Kilimanjaro Walk" to Sexual Reconnection
Feminine Receptivity and the Go-Getter Kind of Gal
The Etiquette of Observing Breasts
What is Sex Therapy, Sex Coaching and Tantra Teaching?
The World is Waking to Conscious Sex
Intercourse as Foreplay
The Pleasure of A Soft Cock
Become a Sensual Explorer
Try A Little Tenderness
The Sensual Man
Sensuality Feeds Sexuality
The Adolescent Male Masturbatory Model of Sex
A History of Sexual Misinformation
The Beauty of Conflict
Communicate - Human's Can't Read Minds!
A Woman's Body Opens In Stages
Breathe Well: Live & Love Well
Your Sexual Makeover
Do Your Research - It's Fun!
Unconditional Love Requires Self-validation
Fire and Water: The Masculine and Feminine Sexual Energies
Men Need a Muse Not Just A Vagina
High Libido Women Keep Their Water Energy Simmering
Teaching Tantra in Thailand
Chill Out in Your Sanctuary
Twelve Benefits of Sex
Make Every Stroke Count
Your Bedroom As Sanctuary
It's the Sum of the Small Things
How Do I Love Thee? Let me count the ways...
The Core of Tantra: Real Sex
Sex as Entree not Dessert
Foreplay and Be-Foreplay
Your 'Great Sex' Project
Are Humans Monogamous - and if not, what does that mean?
Getting to Sex can be like getting to the Gym
Simple Sex is Good Sex
The Awesomeness of Men Who Are Present
Not-So-Secret Men's Business
Could We Have A Festival of Sexuality?
Self-reliance versus Need
The Breadth of Sexuality & The Importance of Fun
Three Things a Masculine Man Needs
Valuing the Masculine
Valuing the Feminine
Face the Darkness to Find the Light
Sex is the Base
Raising the Energy
Men Circulating Sexual Energy
The Great G-Spot & Female Ejaculation Debate!
Sexual Pleasure is the Great Equalizer
Grow Up and Open Up Australia
When He Can't Come
Subtle Shifts to Great Sex
Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 2: How
Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 1: What
How To Consume An Ice-Cream - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 2
How To Eat A Peach - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 1
Masculine & Feminine Sexual Energies
Love in the Time of Chaos
Become a Blackbelt in the Bedroom!
Partnered Yoga - Erotic Connection
The birth of my Blog - with some underlying philosophical ramblings
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