Questions and Answers

 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  


       


I'm in the process of sorting them into categories. In the meantime, search and learn!

 

 

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 Frequently Asked QuestionCategory
1Are multiple orgasms fact or fiction? Do all women experience them?No Category
2Before breastfeeding, I loved having my breasts touched. Not anymore. Will they ever be erogenous again?No Category
3Can you please tell me specifically how to master the woman on top position? I feel like everyone else knows how to do it except me.No Category
4Do women prefer slow, intimate sex over fast and furious?No Category
5During sex lately, I've been losing my erection when my partner becomes wet. Sometimes I feel like I am really close to ejaculating, but the lack of pressure seems to make it hard to sustain. More often than not, I don't climax. It could be that lately No Category
6Even though I'm jealous when it comes to my long-term girlfriend, some of my fantasies revolve around imagining her with other, nameless guys. Sometimes I share these with her during sex and we both have a good time. But am I playing with fire?No Category
7Everyone knows the benefits of having sex - looking younger, improved immune system, decreasing stress and depression etc. But, are these things only beneficial if you reach the "Big O"?No Category
8For the past year, my fiancee's been getting a UTI every time we have intercourse. Obviously, she's not very unenthusiastic about sex. Do you have any advice for having sex or even dealing with not having sex?No Category
9How do I find my girlfriend’s G-spot and what’s the most affective way to stimulate it?No Category
10I am 40 years old and my wife is 32. We've been together for 12 years and have two children. Lately, when I initiate sex, I get treated like a sex maniac. We only do it about twice a month and it’s driving me insane. What can I do?No Category
11I am a 28-year-old bloke who was a virgin till recently when I met a great girl. But since meeting her a can’t get a complete hard-on, not even when going solo. Is it just nerves, or should I go get myself checked out?No Category
12I am a healthy 24-year-old unable to ejaculate during intercourse. Masturbation is no problem. Any ideas?No Category
13I enjoy it when my girlfriend goes down on me, but I rarely come. She has developed a bit of a complex about it. How can I get her to stop worrying about it and relax?No Category
14I had my first date with a lady the other night and she told me she has genital herpes (no, we didn’t have sex). Although she’s very nice, I'm hesitant about seeing her again. What are the chances of me catching it from her and are there any precautions No Category
15I have an addiction to phone sex. I have had this problem for at least 10 years. It is now really starting to affect my sex life with my wife and I would like to stop it and get my life back on track. My wife has no idea of the addiction is worried about No Category

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TESTIMONIALS

"You saved our marriage. Thank-you!"

"We really love coming to see you, as you offer us such support and have made a huge difference to our lives."

"You are a relationship genius!"

"A massive thank you for all your guidance and wisdom. Your sex therapy played a very significant role in changing our lives forever."

"The world is a clearer place now, things are a lot lighter!"

"You've changed the whole way I look at sex, now I feel so much more positive and free and empowered!"

"I had no idea someone like you existed, I'm so glad you do and that I found you!"

"Thank-you for guiding my road to sensual, sexual recovery."

"Thank you for your honesty, openness, wisdom, guidance, love and cuddles. I am very fortunate to have your input and I think you are amazing."

"Thank you so much for your professionalism, passion and dedication – your honesty and integrity shine."

"What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you".

"I just wanted to thank you for all your coaching in the past. I am now living life to the fullest and loving every minute of it"

"Thanks again for your brilliant life-changing support of my wife and I."

"The coaching has been great, I feel privileged to have shared your wisdom."

"Things have improved dramatically via the techniques learned through our sex therapy sessions."

"Your sex coaching helped save me from a life so ordinary, I'm forever grateful."

"You've filled a lot of gaps in my knowledge with your sex coaching."

"I feel entirely transformed. It's not new in the doing, but the sense of self residing within has changed - and that has changed everything."

"We used to fight constantly about sex, I never thought we'd find a way out. Then we found you and with your sex therapy that's all changed. You're awesome!"

"You saved our marriage. Thank-you!"

"We really love coming to see you, as you offer us such support and have made a huge difference to our lives."

"You are a relationship genius!"

"You are one of the most amazing woman I have ever met. I love your warmth, openness and wonderful insights."

"A massive thank you for all your guidance and wisdom. Your sex therapy played a very significant role in changing our lives forever."

"... your workshops are so fun, connective and amazing ... just a joy to participate in ... you definitely have great skills in putting together a very cool experience for people ..."

"The world is a clearer place now, things are a lot lighter!"

"I had no idea someone like you existed, I'm so glad you do and that I found you!"

"I've never felt so comfortable with someone so confronting!"

"Thank you for your honesty, openness, wisdom, guidance, love and cuddles. I am very fortunate to have your input and I think you are amazing."

"Thank you so much for your professionalism, passion and dedication – your honesty and integrity shine."

"What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you".

"Wow, you are an amazing speaker! You're so knowledgable and very entertaining. Thanks so much."

"You are incredibly knowledgable"

"You're the most confronting person I've ever felt so comfortable with!"

"I'm so happy with ME, where I am and where we are as a couple. This is where I've been trying to get for so long and now I'm here! Thanks coach - you're the best!"

"The coaching has been great, I feel privileged to have shared your wisdom."

"Things have improved dramatically via the techniques learned through our sex therapy sessions."

"You have a way of opening me up and reading me like a book. I've taken a tremendous amount away from our sex therapy sessions."

"Your sex coaching helped save me from a life so ordinary, I'm forever grateful."

"I was genuinely so inspired by your leadership and insight. Thank you !"

"That was hilarious! You're so funny - and informative at the same time!"

"You are one of the most amazing woman I have ever met. I love your warmth, openness and wonderful insights."

"Fabulous"

"Inspiring!"

"Thanks for the inspiration!"

"You've changed the whole way I look at sex, now I feel so much more positive and free and empowered!"

"I feel privileged to have shared your wisdom."

"I loved your humour and relaxed facilitation. It really disarmed everyone in a good way!"

"I was genuinely so inspired by your leadership and insight."

"Jacqueline is an inspiration!"

"Thank you for the way you stretch yourself to help others open up."

"What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you".

"Wow, you are an amazing speaker! You're so knowledgable and very entertaining. Thanks so much."

"You truly have a gift Jacqueline!"

"You're the most confronting person I've ever felt so comfortable with!"

"Really got a lot out of it and learned a lot"

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"Jacqueline's workshops are fun, informative, sensual, and in many ways deeply profound." 

"It's not over-stating to say that I would call the Luscious Woman course 'life changing'. In essence I believe it has been a major catalyst in deep healing, a fundamental shift in personal and spiritual growth, and lasting and evolving change in self confidence, body awareness, self acceptance and ongoing sexual exploration."

"Your Tantra Fusion workshops are fundamental to the health and sustainability of all relationships, regardless. In this faster than ever paced world, over stimulated and titillated, and where choice and everything-can-be-had as a retail experience is omnipresent, your guidance is like a light through the darkness..."

"... your workshops are so fun, connective and amazing ... just a joy to participate in ... you definitely have great skills in putting together a very cool experience for people ..."

"In the short time since the Blackbelt seminar, my partner has said that our sex has turned "180 degrees", and that you are a "miracle worker" !"

"Provided a new freedom"

"Thank you for the way you stretch yourself to help others open up."

"We loved every minute of the day. It was such a beautiful experience to be surrounded by so much love. Thank you for filling up our love bank!"

"A wonderful authentic experience"

"I feel entirely transformed. It's not new in the doing, but the sense of self residing within has changed - and that has changed everything."

"I would love to do this every day!"

"What have you done to my wife!! I'm loving it. I think I am your new best friend! I am telling everyone who cares to listen about your Tantra Fusion workshops. "

"Your workshops are amazing"

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"We've just spent a wonderful weekend workshopping with Jacqueline. Her workshops are fun, informative, sensual, and in many ways deeply profound - the weekend brought us closer in ways we could never have imagined. Thank-you for filling up our love bank!"

"From me a huge hug and big big thank you for the wonderful content, presentation at Luscious Lovers, and most of all the love you shared with us."


"I loved my time at the Luscious Lovers workshop - truly amazing."

"I loved the experiential nature of Luscious Lovers - it was brilliant and acted as a stimulus to reconnecting."

"Thanks so much for a wonderful Sunday.I will be recommending Luscious Lovers to all and sundry with gusto!"

"It was a great day spent expressing and learning to express even deeper our love for each other. It has had a lovely positive effect on our relationship, and this boosted love has extended out to all other relationships in my life. It’s brought a spark to my life for ‘communion’. And with the basket of golden-egg goodies (exercises) we received on the day, I feel resourced-up to explore what was previously unknown and a little intimidating."

"It was so good to take time out to reconnect."

"It was very special "seeing" each other and "reconnecting", I guess you just don't realise how you don't often just 'look at each other'."

"Just wanted to let you know that we enjoyed Luscious Lovers last Sunday immensely. Happy to say that we really connected that day and had some of the most amazing sex when we got home!!!!
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"Luscious Lovers was so good we're back to do it a second time!"

"My husband says he's so pleased I made him attend Luscious Lovers. Since Saturday we have noticed a real shift in our energies towards each other almost like switching from AM to FM radio, the difference is that noticeable."

"My partner and I feel closer since the Luscious Lovers workshop. Before this my partner said he felt a lot of pressure to live up to a macho male image, but when he saw how much other men were willing to give the gentle tantric caressing to their partners, he's started doing this at home. For me, this workshop has given me the courage to experiment, I can bring my fantasies to life instead of keeping them only in my mind."


"Thanks Jacqueline, we both had an extraordinary day."

"Thank you for a wonderful day. We certainly both found it enjoyable, beneficial and more! It was the breakthrough we’ve been searching for."

"The course helped us remember the importance of completely "being" with each other - not just physically, but on a much deeper level. We will take this into the bedroom and practice the art of real love-making, not just sex!"

"We loved every minute of the day. It was such a beautiful experience to be surrounded by so much love. Thank you for filling up our love bank!"

"We really enjoyed the Luscious Lovers workshop, so much so that we raced home afterwards and got it on! Grrrrrrrrr to say the least – Lol."


“WOW! THANK YOU for making the day really special for us and highlighting some of the simple things we can do as Luscious Lovers."


"Inspired, oohhh yeah, what wonderful timing for us just the injection we both needed."

"No-one felt intimidated - it was relaxing and natural to partake in the activities."

"Such beautiful people - it was a real joy!"

"Thank-you for an awesome day, it was perfect in every way."


"You've shown me how to feel the way I've always wanted to. Thank-you for deliciously weaving my spirit and sexuality back together."

"I never expected the Luscious Woman Workshop to have such a dramatic change on how I view myself and how I now feel sexy, feminine and graceful. I've never said those words about myself before!"

"It's not over-stating to say that I would call the Luscious Woman course 'life changing'. In essence I believe it has been a major catalyst in deep healing, a fundamental shift in personal and spiritual growth, and lasting and evolving change in self confidence, body awareness, self acceptance and ongoing sexual exploration."

"Provided a new freedom"

"How can I thank you? You have helped me move to a place where I not only feel comfortable with my body, but feel it's pretty damn sexy and any man who gets to explore and share it is lucky. Most importantly I feel good about myself. I've had my eyes opened to all sorts of possibilities..."

"I loved your humour and relaxed facilitation. It really disarmed everyone in a good way!"

"Thank you for the way you stretch yourself to help others open up."

"Thank-you XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX U R wonderful"

"You truly have a gift Jacqueline!"

"I really enjoyed the Luscious Woman workshop and I know my husband is reaping the rewards of my increased femininity and confidence."

"Absolutely amazing Luscious Woman workshop, thank-you sooooooo much!"

"Am super pleased I did the workshop for the guidance which I've taken on. Especially the whole yin/yang and strength through gentleness."

"I found the Luscious Woman Workshop an inspiring and invigorating experience. It was lovely to meet a bunch of like-minded women, feel pampered and treasured, and be reminded of my ... well, lusciousness, really!"

"I have realised so much about my self and my sexuality, your Luscious Woman workshop has changed the way I see sex."

"I learned so much at Luscious Woman and feel better about many things - more empowered and definitely more luscious."

"I want to say a huge thank you!!! I loved Luscious Woman! It has changed my life. Beautiful work!"

"I loved the Luscious Woman weekend thank you so much for putting on such a professional and tasteful workshop."

"I really enjoyed your Luscious Woman workshop, it was a great experience. You have a special gift :-)"

"By attending your Luscious Woman workshop I was able to see women from a much more positive light, we're so gorgeous and sexy! I'll never be so critical about myself or other women again. What a relief!"

"I wish I could do the Luscious Woman weekend every month!"

"It was ALL great for igniting the inner goddess!!! I've been on a flow ever since the Luscious Woman weekend!!!"

"It was an amazing couple of days ... On Monday, after the Luscious Woman Workshop I must have been buzzing because two separate guys said versions of "Hello Sexy" to me that morning!"

"It was an amazing couple of days ... I've been feeling great ever since."

"It was so good to connect with other women at Luscious Woman and be open about our sexuality. It was reassuring to know that everyone has issues, timid ones like me and the sexually adventurous."

"It was the most wonderful pleasure to have the opportunity to attend the Luscious Woman weekend and meet some lovely stunning women. I have come away from your wonderful workshop with a renewed sense of what is, and what is not so important in life. I am convinced that one definitely needs to spend time ensuring to have as much pleasurable experience as possible."

"Luscious Woman was so useful and very much applies to the modern lush woman who wants to feel and be even more empowered!"

"My partner said within 24 hours: "that Luscious Woman course you did was well worth every cent you paid for it!"

"Really got a lot out of Luscious Woman and learned a lot"

"Thank-you for the fabulous Luscious Woman Workshop. It was great fun, enlightening and I look forward to bringing some new changes into my life."

"Thank-you so much for creating such an amazing, truly luscious weekend where a woman can really explore herself and her hidden potential. I'm still glowing from the experience and whenever I think about it, I get a little cheeky smile. I've gone from feeling somewhat inhibited to warmly embracing my sexual self and its expression."

"Thank you so much for the Luscious Woman weekend. It was truly powerful."

"The Luscious Woman course was AMAZING and wonderful. So informative, liberating and empowering."

"The Luscious Woman weekend was great for me, I think working on the solution instead of the problem has taken me further forward then anything else I have tried. I am looking at making love in a whole different way."

"This weekend gave me so much confidence.  I feel sexy and like a woman again"

"What a super girly treat!"

"I feel entirely transformed. It's not new in the doing, but the sense of self residing within has changed - and that has changed everything."

"I would love to do this every day!"

"Thank you again for an extraordinary weekend."

"At Blackbelt I really got what it means to come into my masculine sexual energy, with strength and confidence and no macho or aggression. Feels great! (And my wife is beaming!)"


"Blackbelt in the Bedroom was the most amazingly useful workshop I have ever done!"

"Great to get insights into how a woman is thinking and feeling during sex."

"Great workshop last night. Really enjoyed it and learned heaps!"

"I applied everything you taught at Blackbelt and had the most intense sex ever!"

"I have done Jacqueline's Blackbelt in the Bedroom course twice now, and I may go back for a third. Its like they say practise makes perfect, and this is one practise I really really really enjoy!!! "

"In the short time since the Blackbelt seminar, my partner has said that our sex has turned "180 degrees", and that you are a "miracle worker" !"

"The Blackbelt workshop felt great and I was blown away by how brave you are to do this kind of thing with a room full of strange men and how gorgeous the energy around you is."

"Blackbelt was awesome...I already put it to action last night and was told by a beautiful and experienced very sexual young lady that I was the best sex she ever had and she wants more, more, more....!"

"I didn't know what I didn't know!" 

"I had no idea someone like you existed, I'm so glad you do and that I found you!"

"You are incredibly knowledgable"

"Thanks for an inspirational and informative session
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"We used to fight constantly about sex, I never thought we'd find a way out. Then we found you and with your sex therapy that's all changed. You're awesome!"

"Working on the solution instead of the problem has taken me further forward then anything else I have tried."

"No judgment, no BS, no mucking around. Brilliant."

"You've shown me how to feel the way I've always wanted to. Thank-you for deliciously weaving my spirit and sexuality back together."

"You saved our marriage. Thank-you!"

"I was genuinely so inspired by your leadership and insight. Thank you !"

"What a lovely weekend the Luscious Lovers Retreat was! We’re in love with Wollemi Wilderness."

"I never expected the Luscious Woman Workshop to have such a dramatic change on how I view myself and how I now feel sexy, feminine and graceful. I've never said those words about myself before!"

"I feel an enormous sense of relief that we have a platform to start communicating about intimacy and sex in an open respectful and adult way."

"Jacqueline's workshops are fun, informative, sensual, and in many ways deeply profound." 

"At Blackbelt I really got what it means to come into my masculine sexual energy, with strength and confidence and no macho or aggression. Feels great! (And my wife is beaming!)"


"Catherine really helped me to look at my problems in a whole, different way. Her attitude was refreshing and positive, and she has pretty great insight into other people and their lives. She really listened and understood and gave me a new perspective on a big mess I’d got myself into!" 

"I was completely stuck in my relationship. Colleen took me through a process that made making the decision to go or stay clear to me."

"That was hilarious! You're so funny - and informative at the same time!"

"We've just spent a wonderful weekend workshopping with Jacqueline. Her workshops are fun, informative, sensual, and in many ways deeply profound - the weekend brought us closer in ways we could never have imagined. Thank-you for filling up our love bank!"

"A huge thank you with all my heart for the unique and beautiful experience that you created for all of us on the weekend. It was such a magnificent experience and I am amazed at how much the Luscious Woman weekend boosted my confidence, I feel fantastic. What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you".

"We really love coming to see you, as you offer us such support and have made a huge difference to our lives."

"Blackbelt in the Bedroom was the most amazingly useful workshop I have ever done!"

“Thank you Catherine for being so understanding! You have so much knowledge about sex and sexuality yet you were so down to earth and easy to talk to!”

"I needed some deep and far reaching help. I got it. I feel like I'm on track for the first time in my adult life."

"This was so different to other therapy experiences I've had. Your way of looking at things really changed the way I think. I so much calmer and relaxed about everything, but especially about sex."

"You are a relationship genius!"

"You are one of the most amazing woman I have ever met. I love your warmth, openness and wonderful insights."

"Jacqueline (and the beautiful setting) allows couples to spoil themselves and to explore new levels of connecting and sexy fun. If you want to try something different for the sake of your relationship, do it, as we can all get bored and boring in relating to our partners. Maybe we'll be back for a top-up in the future!"

"The Luscious Lovers Retreat was held in a lovely, lovely spot and well-managed...It was fun, relaxed, inspiring, safe and no sleaze."

"It's not over-stating to say that I would call the Luscious Woman course 'life changing'. In essence I believe it has been a major catalyst in deep healing, a fundamental shift in personal and spiritual growth, and lasting and evolving change in self confidence, body awareness, self acceptance and ongoing sexual exploration."

"A massive thank you for all your guidance and wisdom. Your sex therapy played a very significant role in changing our lives forever."

"Your Tantra Fusion workshops are fundamental to the health and sustainability of all relationships, regardless. In this faster than ever paced world, over stimulated and titillated, and where choice and everything-can-be-had as a retail experience is omnipresent, your guidance is like a light through the darkness..."

"... your workshops are so fun, connective and amazing ... just a joy to participate in ... you definitely have great skills in putting together a very cool experience for people ..."

"Great to get insights into how a woman is thinking and feeling during sex."

"Great workshop last night. Really enjoyed it and learned heaps!"

"I applied everything you taught at Blackbelt and had the most intense sex ever!"

"I have done Jacqueline's Blackbelt in the Bedroom course twice now, and I may go back for a third. Its like they say practise makes perfect, and this is one practise I really really really enjoy!!! "

"In the short time since the Blackbelt seminar, my partner has said that our sex has turned "180 degrees", and that you are a "miracle worker" !"

"It was great to hang out with such cool guys at Blackbelt in the Bedroom, no jocks or dickheads."

"I've done Blackbelt in the Bedroom twice it's so good. There's nowhere else you can get this quality of information explained clearly and boldly. It's made a huge difference to my life."

"Thanks for last week's Blackbelt session, I certainly took a lot away from it."

"Thanks Jacqueline for Blackbelt in the Bedroom last night, an absolutely amazing course."

"The Blackbelt workshop felt great and I was blown away by how brave you are to do this kind of thing with a room full of strange men and how gorgeous the energy around you is."

"Blackbelt was awesome...I already put it to action last night and was told by a beautiful and experienced very sexual young lady that I was the best sex she ever had and she wants more, more, more....!"

"Catherine has a particular knack for putting people at ease, whether you meet her baring your body in an intimate photo shoot, or baring your soul in conversation. In both of her professions, her ability to be honest, trustworthy, non-judgmental and kind, stands her in great stead. I would have no hesitation in recommending her to anyone."

"Catherine is just so approachable and non-judgmental, and I felt really comfortable talking about my life with her.”

“I admit I was nervous before seeing you but you are just so lovely and passionate about what you do, all my nerves disappeared straight away!”

“I feel like I can talk to Catherine about anything. I feel really comfortable ‘baring my soul’ to her, so to speak! I always come away from photo shoots or therapy sessions with her feeling really positive and believing in myself. She’s opened my eyes to a more empowered and confident me.”

"I'm really excited to book you for a therapy session because you photographed me with my partner, when I was pregnant and on the birth of my son and I felt like I was getting therapy when I did the photo-shoots with you. The photos are so beautiful and the experience so special and precious. You are always a joy to be around."

"You always listen carefully to anything I express and install the confidence I lack through your gentle words. Through laughter and talking, you always makes me realize I am priceless and can do anything I put my mind to!"

"You are some sort of healer. Thank you for your creativity and insights."

"You GET it. You understand where I'm coming from and don't judge. I trust you more than most!"

“You have a real gift to help so many women. I learnt a lot from you and you have inspired me. I’m so glad you have become a sex therapist!”

“You have so much empathy! I feel like you could step into anyone’s shoes and see their world from how they see it. “

"Colleen has a warm, motherly, feel about her - but don't be deceived, her knowledge and experience of things sexual is amazingly broad. She can make you feel comfortable discussing sex and intimacy at all and every level."

"Colleen is extraordinarily insightful. I am constantly impressed by her knowledge, wisdom, and the simplicity with which she conveys it."

"Colleen helped me see myself and the dumb things I was doing that we're wrecking my marriage. It was pretty simple actually, but I couldn't have done it on my own. I'm sure I'd be divorced now without her help."

"I didn't realise how much my poor body image was impacting on all aspects of my life, but especially on my sex life. You really helped me break out of all sorts of negative and unhelpful habits and thought patterns, and quickly!"

"I really didn't believe sex could be like this, I now know what all the fuss is about."

"It started with sex but we talked about everything. Colleen showed me how things are connected and how to make changes that really stick."

"It wasn't cheap, but it sure was a lot cheaper than a divorce!"

"The mindfulness exercises you taught are great. They are really working for me."

"The things you taught me about playing to my strengths instead of feeling bad about my failings I use all the time. Thanks for helping me feel good about being me."

"As an older woman embarking on a sexual relationship after a considerable break, I found Colleen’s practical guidance and common sense invaluable. It was so good to talk with someone who understood my self-consciousness. I never believed I’d be sexually active again – let alone enjoy it!"

"Fabulous"

"I didn't know what I didn't know!" 

"Inspiring!"

"Provided a new freedom"

"Thanks for the inspiration!"

"The world is a clearer place now, things are a lot lighter!"

"Useful, loving information."

"You've changed the whole way I look at sex, now I feel so much more positive and free and empowered!"

"How can I thank you? You have helped me move to a place where I not only feel comfortable with my body, but feel it's pretty damn sexy and any man who gets to explore and share it is lucky. Most importantly I feel good about myself. I've had my eyes opened to all sorts of possibilities..."

"I can honestly say that I'd be separated and on my way to divorce if not for you slapping me into shape."

"I feel privileged to have shared your wisdom."

"I had no idea someone like you existed, I'm so glad you do and that I found you!"

"I just wanted to say a quick thank you. My girlfriend is absolutely in raptures because of what I can do to make her feel almost an inch towards heaven. A lot of it has been your wise words and your philosophy. The main thing that you said, was its not the pursuit of the orgasm but the enjoyment of the whole journey, and I have made that my own now. Thank you again, you have made Me able to give her everything that she richly deserves in the bedroom."

"I loved your humour and relaxed facilitation. It really disarmed everyone in a good way!"

"I often reflect on what a wonderful person you are and what a beautiful gift you share with others. I love your passion for helping others and one day I hope I gain enough wisdom to help others in your footsteps. I will continually look out for others in need and highly recommend you where ever I go, as I think this world needs so many more amazing people like yourself to uplift and brighten the lives of those in need."

"I really appreciated your thoughtful and insightful advice."

"I was genuinely so inspired by your leadership and insight."

"I've never felt so comfortable with someone so confronting!"

"Jacqueline is an inspiration!"

"Many thanks for a great night. Lots of good stuff to think about." 

"Loved the practical demo, thanks for being so bold."

"When we started seeing you we were newly-weds heading for divorce... after our sessions with you we are happier and more in love (and lust) than ever before!"

"Thank you for all your boundless healing energy."

"Thank-you for guiding my road to sensual, sexual recovery."

"Thank you for your honesty, openness, wisdom, guidance, love and cuddles. I am very fortunate to have your input and I think you are amazing."

"Thank you for the way you stretch yourself to help others open up."

"Thank you so much for your professionalism, passion and dedication – your honesty and integrity shine."

"Thank-you XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX U R wonderful"

"The empowerment you provide people with through your sex therapy and tantra workshops is inspirational, life changing and the beauty of it is that you don't give them power, you don't even create it, it just simply manifests itself through the opportunities you so strategically present."

"What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you".

"Wow, you are an amazing speaker! You're so knowledgable and very entertaining. Thanks so much."

"You are incredibly knowledgable"

"You truly have a gift Jacqueline!"

"You're the most confronting person I've ever felt so comfortable with!"

"I’m really glad to ... have the time and space to begin to move through and assimilate the shift ... and to begin as we mean to go on with what we have both learned about ourselves, as well as the new skills, fun, ways of enjoying ourselves, etc, that we have gained from our Luscious Lovers Retreat."

"It was a great day spent expressing and learning to express even deeper our love for each other. It has had a lovely positive effect on our relationship, and this boosted love has extended out to all other relationships in my life. It’s brought a spark to my life for ‘communion’. And with the basket of golden-egg goodies (exercises) we received on the day, I feel resourced-up to explore what was previously unknown and a little intimidating."

"Thank you for a wonderful Luscious Lovers retreat, it is such a special memory for us now. We wish we could do it all over again actually."

"Thank you Jacqueline for an absolutely amazing weekend. You are so right, the additional depth that is created in the space of a retreat is so very special - I am still bathing in the afterglow, and hubby is very happy about that ;)"

"The Couples Retreat was a great opportunity to relax and enjoy each other's company and intimacy, and the company of you and the other attendees."

"The course helped us remember the importance of completely "being" with each other - not just physically, but on a much deeper level. We will take this into the bedroom and practice the art of real love-making, not just sex!"

"We are so pleased we decided to spend our anniversary on the Luscious Lovers Retreat and have no doubt that this unique weekend getaway will support a loving, happy and fulfilling future together".

"We sent our young children to Grandmas for the weekend and spent our precious alone time at the Luscious Lovers Retreat. The stunning and peaceful location was fantastic - only a couple of hours from home, but miles from the crazy city. A sense of calm descended the moment we arrived. For the entire weekend, Jacqueline's funky and tasteful teachings mixed perfectly with the feeling of the place. We felt totally relaxed and got back in touch with each other. There was plenty of time for us to be alone as a couple, as well as so much to learn about building our relationship. One of the highlights of the weekend was indulging in a hot, bubbly spa bath, with the windows open on to nature in the middle of the day - wow!"

"We would highly recommend the Luscious Lovers Retreat to couples who are committed to nurturing and evolving their relationship. The retreat provides the perfect foundation to focus solely on your relationship and grow as a couple through experiencing new and exciting things.".

"We've been having a lovely increase in intimacy and fun and insight since doing your fantastic Tantra Fusion Couples Retreat."

"Your Couples Retreat opened us up more to the joys of exploring our connection and ourselves from an ‘energetic’ point of view, and the flow on from that and the gorgeous days we spent with you has been profound, meaningful and self sustaining for us."

"From me a huge hug and big big thank you for the wonderful content, presentation at Luscious Lovers, and most of all the love you shared with us."


"I loved my time at the Luscious Lovers workshop - truly amazing."

"I loved the experiential nature of Luscious Lovers - it was brilliant and acted as a stimulus to reconnecting."

"Thanks so much for a wonderful Sunday.I will be recommending Luscious Lovers to all and sundry with gusto!"

"It was a great day spent expressing and learning to express even deeper our love for each other. It has had a lovely positive effect on our relationship, and this boosted love has extended out to all other relationships in my life. It’s brought a spark to my life for ‘communion’. And with the basket of golden-egg goodies (exercises) we received on the day, I feel resourced-up to explore what was previously unknown and a little intimidating."

"It was so good to take time out to reconnect."

"It was such a beautiful experience to be surrounded by so much love. Thank you for filling up our love bank!"

"It was very special "seeing" each other and "reconnecting", I guess you just don't realise how you don't often just 'look at each other'."

"Just wanted to let you know that we enjoyed Luscious Lovers last Sunday immensely. Happy to say that we really connected that day and had some of the most amazing sex when we got home!!!!
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"Luscious Lovers was so good we're back to do it a second time!"

"My husband says he's so pleased I made him attend Luscious Lovers. Since Saturday we have noticed a real shift in our energies towards each other almost like switching from AM to FM radio, the difference is that noticeable."

"My partner and I feel closer since the Luscious Lovers workshop. Before this my partner said he felt a lot of pressure to live up to a macho male image, but when he saw how much other men were willing to give the gentle tantric caressing to their partners, he's started doing this at home. For me, this workshop has given me the courage to experiment, I can bring my fantasies to life instead of keeping them only in my mind."


"Thank you for such a unique and positive experience. It's very refreshing to interact and see couples still so deeply in love after so many years. Today society puts too much focus on divorce and negativity and not enough time on teaching couples the amazing re-connecting techniques that we've learnt in your wonderful Tantra Fusion couples courses."

"Thanks Jacqueline, we both had an extraordinary day."

"Thank you for a wonderful day. We certainly both found it enjoyable, beneficial and more! It was the breakthrough we’ve been searching for."

"The course helped us remember the importance of completely "being" with each other - not just physically, but on a much deeper level. We will take this into the bedroom and practice the art of real love-making, not just sex!"

"The Luscious Lovers course helped us remember the importance of completely "being" with each other - not just physically, but on a much deeper level. We will take this into the bedroom and practice the art of real love-making, not just sex!"

"The re-connecting techniques we've learned in your couples workshops are amazing."

"We loved every minute of the day. It was such a beautiful experience to be surrounded by so much love. Thank you for filling up our love bank!"

"We really enjoyed the Luscious Lovers workshop, so much so that we raced home afterwards and got it on! Grrrrrrrrr to say the least – Lol."


“WOW! THANK YOU for making the day really special for us and highlighting some of the simple things we can do as Luscious Lovers."


"I really enjoyed the Luscious Woman workshop and I know my husband is reaping the rewards of my increased femininity and confidence."

"After all the work I've done with you, the Luscious Woman women's retreat truly shifted me into the space I'd been yearning for. Thank-you."

"The Luscious Woman Retreat was awakening, challenging, beautiful and fun, and the location was so perfect."

"Let's make the Luscious Woman Retreat an annual event! What a gift for oneself!!"

"The fabulous movement of energy and stillness at the same time, that I obtained during the retreat, has remained."

"The Luscious Woman Retreat was one of the most amazing experiences I've had."

"The wonderful group of women I met on the retreat is also why the weekend was so inspiring and enjoyable."

"Absolutely amazing Luscious Woman workshop, thank-you sooooooo much!"

"Am super pleased I did the workshop for the guidance which I've taken on. Especially the whole yin/yang and strength through gentleness."

"I found the Luscious Woman Workshop an inspiring and invigorating experience. It was lovely to meet a bunch of like-minded women, feel pampered and treasured, and be reminded of my ... well, lusciousness, really!"

"I have realised so much about my self and my sexuality, your Luscious Woman workshop has changed the way I see sex."

"I learned so much at Luscious Woman and feel better about many things - more empowered and definitely more luscious."

"I want to say a huge thank you!!! I loved Luscious Woman! It has changed my life. Beautiful work!"

"I loved the Luscious Woman weekend thank you so much for putting on such a professional and tasteful workshop."

"I really enjoyed your Luscious Woman workshop, it was a great experience. You have a special gift :-)"

"By attending your Luscious Woman workshop I was able to see women from a much more positive light, we're so gorgeous and sexy! I'll never be so critical about myself or other women again. What a relief!"

"I wish I could do the Luscious Woman weekend every month!"

"It was all about rediscovering and embracing being a woman, and everything that surrounds that."

"It was ALL great for igniting the inner goddess!!! I've been on a flow ever since the Luscious Woman weekend!!!"

"It was an amazing couple of days ... On Monday, after the Luscious Woman Workshop I must have been buzzing because two separate guys said versions of "Hello Sexy" to me that morning!"

"It was an amazing couple of days ... I've been feeling great ever since."

"It was so good to connect with other women at Luscious Woman and be open about our sexuality. It was reassuring to know that everyone has issues, timid ones like me and the sexually adventurous."

"It was the most wonderful pleasure to have the opportunity to attend the Luscious Woman weekend and meet some lovely stunning women. I have come away from your wonderful workshop with a renewed sense of what is, and what is not so important in life. I am convinced that one definitely needs to spend time ensuring to have as much pleasurable experience as possible."

"Luscious Woman was so useful and very much applies to the modern lush woman who wants to feel and be even more empowered!"

"My partner said within 24 hours: "that Luscious Woman course you did was well worth every cent you paid for it!"

"Really got a lot out of Luscious Woman and learned a lot"

"Thank-you for the fabulous Luscious Woman Workshop. It was great fun, enlightening and I look forward to bringing some new changes into my life."

"Thank-you so much for creating such an amazing, truly luscious weekend where a woman can really explore herself and her hidden potential. I'm still glowing from the experience and whenever I think about it, I get a little cheeky smile. I've gone from feeling somewhat inhibited to warmly embracing my sexual self and its expression."

"Thank you so much for the Luscious Woman weekend. It was truly powerful."

"The Luscious Woman course was AMAZING and wonderful. So informative, liberating and empowering."

"The Luscious Woman Retreat has truly shifted my thinking, my life and me, in a wonderful direction. Thank you so much Jacqueline."

"The Luscious Woman weekend was great for me, I think working on the solution instead of the problem has taken me further forward then anything else I have tried. I am looking at making love in a whole different way."

"This weekend gave me so much confidence.  I feel sexy and like a woman again"

"What a super girly treat!"

"Before meeting Jacqueline we were “fumbling around in the dark”, I couldn’t go the distance and this left my beloved underwhelmed. We were caught in the daily grind, were sexually frustrated and wanting a more satisfying experience. Since Jacqueline’s sex coaching our lovemaking has become light-hearted, our lives filled with romance, dating, petting, smooches. When we make love the time is intimate, fun, erotic, orgasmic and/or all of the above. We’ve never been happier, whole or as complete – and can’t thank you enough."

"I contacted Jacqueline with the dread of having sex and not really liking my "bits". I am proud to say that with her sex therapy, today I now initiate sex and am way less shy to share my "bits" with my partner. "

"I just wanted to thank you for all your coaching in the past. I am now living life to the fullest and loving every minute of it"

"I would like to deeply thank you for all your support and sharing your wisdom with me. Since our first sex therapy session I have learned to orgasm and break my limiting belief that I was a non orgasmic women for 27 years! I will never forget the beautiful gift that you have given me, my gratitude for your kindness will always be something I reflect on for the rest of my life."

"I'm so happy with ME, where I am and where we are as a couple. This is where I've been trying to get for so long and now I'm here! Thanks coach - you're the best!"

"In the couple of years since we saw you I realise that my wife has never rejected me. That's a testament to your skill as a sex therapist!"

"My love life has so shifted to another level….you showed me in an amazing way, how I was able to tap into a field of energy that I didn’t realize existed when it comes to lovemaking and intimacy which shifts the whole experience to another level."

"Omigawd thank you so much... We had the most amazing 'homework' experience after our sex coaching session!"

"Thank you so much for all your help and inspiration over the last five months....don't think we would have made it this far without you!!!"

"Thank you so much for your help...in my sexual, sensual and feminine growth. I am a different person than who I was 2 years ago, and a bucket load happier xx"

"Thanks again for your brilliant life-changing support of my wife and I."

"Thanks for an inspirational and informative session
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"The coaching has been great, I feel privileged to have shared your wisdom."

"Things have improved dramatically via the techniques learned through our sex therapy sessions."

"We have noticed a real shift in our energies towards each other almost like switching from AM to FM radio, the difference is that noticeable."

"You have a way of opening me up and reading me like a book. I've taken a tremendous amount away from our sex therapy sessions."

"Your sex coaching helped save me from a life so ordinary, I'm forever grateful."

"You've filled a lot of gaps in my knowledge with your sex coaching."

"A wonderful authentic experience"

"I feel entirely transformed. It's not new in the doing, but the sense of self residing within has changed - and that has changed everything."

"I just want to say thank you again for 'every' everything! :)  I still have visions of the wonderful communal feeling of a gathering of strangers who quickly become friends, of sharing of life, love, lust and luscious food. I so enjoyed switching off from all my responsibilities."

“I loved it - my love life has SOOO shifted to another level….you showed me in an amazing way, how I was able to tap into a field of energy that I didn’t realize existed when it comes to lovemaking and intimacy which shifts the whole experience to another level. I am now better able to remain focused and present to the whole experience."



"I would love to do this every day!"

"Inspired, oohhh yeah, what wonderful timing for us just the injection we both needed."

"It was absolutely wonderful."

"It was smart, funny, and sprinkled about with little pearls of wisdom that I'm trying to make sure I don't forget."

"No-one felt intimidated - it was relaxing and natural to partake in the activities."

"Really got a lot out of it and learned a lot"

"Seeing the way Oscar conducted himself and spoke and the way the two of you interacted was eye-opening."

"So good to get practical information that's solid, real and not at all sleazy."

"Such beautiful people - it was a real joy!"

"Thank you again for an extraordinary weekend."

"Thank-you for an awesome day, it was perfect in every way."


"What have you done to my wife!! I'm loving it. I think I am your new best friend! I am telling everyone who cares to listen about your Tantra Fusion workshops. "

"Your workshops are amazing"

Jacqueline Hellyer