I'm ready to get back in the saddle after a divorce. But I'm scared! How do I get confident about having sex with the first new person in 10 years?

As a client in the same situation said: “I feel like a very experienced virgin!” Like a virgin, you’ll probably find the first time the most intimidating. So make sure it’s a comfortable one. The good thing is that there are no rules, so you can do whatever works best for you. You might want to choose someone nice enough to get through the ‘first time’ (be upfront about this, he’ll be flattered). Keep your expectations low (chances are you won’t orgasm first time) and enjoy the experience of discovering a new body.