My girlfriend isn't as noisy during sex as she once was, even though she always orgasms still. I miss the wake-the-neighbours moans and groans. What's going on?

Your sex is probably getting a bit same-old same-old. Satisfying but not as arousing as it once was. This is normal. All couples get to a point where what was exciting has got a bit ordinary. That’s when it’s time to push your boundaries a little, share some more about your desires and what’s erotic for you. Try something new. This can be scary and challenging, but it’s the only way to keep sex good. Sharing yourselves in soul and body is what’s required. That will get the neighbours reaching for ear-plugs again!