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Valuing the Masculine

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, August 10, 2010

We undervalue the feminine principle in our society and I believe we get the masculine principle just as wrong.

Since we’ve had a few thousand years of not valuing the feminine, in place we’ve had an unnatural, overly arrogant masculine - a masculine principle that is more defined by the ability to dominate and control than one that is defined by true strength and openness.
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How Men Can Circulate Sexual Energy

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 29, 2010

A male client sent me a lovely email thanking me for teaching him a specific energy circulating technique. This is what he wrote: read more...



What to do when He Can't Come

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, May 11, 2010

We often hear about women having trouble with orgasms, and generally with men it’s thought that they have the opposite problem, that they come too quickly. So when a man has trouble coming, or can’t come at all, he might feel that there’s something wrong with him. It can be very lonely for a mane to feel this way.

But it’s actually very common for men not to come. It’s called Retarded or Delayed Ejaculation, and most men will encounter it at least sporadically in their lives. If it’s happening repeatedly though, it can be a problem. Particularly if the woman thinks it’s because he’s not attracted to her.
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Masculine & Feminine Sexual Energies

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, March 04, 2010

I incorporate the energetic aspect of sex strongly into the work I do with private clients and in workshops. Personally I believe that without this understanding of sex it’s very difficult to correct problems and to move towards reaching your sexual potential.

The energetic traditions I draw from are both Tantric and Taoist, as well as my own experiences in the martial arts, particularly aikido (which translates as ‘the way of harmony’ and which is extraordinarily like sex, in the sense that is simultaneously still and moving, physical and spiritual, strong and soft, and constantly requiring connection and flow).

There are some very useful analogies about sexual energy and I love to share with modern people that they generally find quite illuminating. Here’s one:
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Become a Blackbelt in the Bedroom!

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, February 18, 2010

Why a “Blackbelt” in the Bedroom?

I'm about to launch seminars for Men Only called Blackbelt in the Bedroom. Obviously the title is catchy (what man wouldn’t want to be a blackbelt in the bedroom?) and that’s why I’m using it, but commericial cynicism aside, there are very good reasons why I’m chosen the term “blackbelt”.
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