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The Reason Why Humans Are So Sexual

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Why are humans so sexual? 

Because our babies are born too early.

Yes, you read that correctly, humans have evolved to be highly sexual because our babies are born too early. read more...

How to Talk to Kids About Sex - and why you need to

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 23, 2015

I remember when my eldest son came home from school one day when he was five, giggling and snickering and asking us if we had (giggle giggle, cover mouth, snicker): “S…!?” He was absolutely stunned when we replied: “Yes, that’s Mummy and Daddy’s Cuddle Time.” read more...

Turning Sex Lives Upside-Down - It’s My Life’s Work!

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Take a group of couples who love each other, put them in a beautiful environment with no distractions, teach them to connect more deeply, inspire them to explore and play, and what do you get…?

Well, as one man who attended my Bali retreat put it:

"I thought this retreat would expand our sex life, but it didn’t so much expand as turn our sex life upside down! I’m now seeing the world with a new, exciting, slightly bewildering light.” read more...

What’s Your Eroticism - Intimate, Wild, Fun?

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Have sex that is intimate - gentle, deep and tender:

Go ahead – stare into each others eyes while barely moving. Make love ever so slowly. Stroke every inch of your partner’s body. Whisper poetry in her ear. Visualise a bond of energy joining your hearts. Alternate four short strokes with one slow and long. Sigh and moan and quiver and shiver. Make blissful love!

Have sex that is erotic - wild, lusty and wicked:
Go ahead - bring out the handcuffs and tie yourselves up, tie yourselves down. Wear crotchless leather knickers and 10-inch stilettos. Talk dirty to each other. Drip candle wax on each other’s skin. Play slave and master. Take explicit photos of yourselves. Yell and groan and bite and growl. Let loose and fuck!

Have sex that is playful – exuberant, mischievous and outrageous:
Go ahead – dress up as a French maid and tickle him with your feather duster while he plays dead. Smear each other with strawberry jam and lick it off. Pour champagne over yourselves. Stop the car and have sex on the side of the road. Do it by an open window where you might be seen or heard. Be silly, giggle and fall down laughing. Have a good bonk!

And, of course, you can make love and fuck and bonk all in the same bout of love-making. It’s all possible. All of it.

30 Nights of Nookie!

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, August 29, 2014

How much closer could you and your partner get if you engaged in nookie every night for thirty nights…?

Find out for yourself in the 30 Nights of Nookie Challenge! read more...

Learning Tantra in Paradise

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, May 27, 2014

I have just had one of the most amazing experiences of my life - running the first ever five-day Luscious Lovers Retreat in Bali!

It’s hard to describe how wonderful it has been to spend that amount of time with ten couples all committed to deepening their connection and creating more beautiful and gorgeous sexual relating.


Trust Your Body

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, January 14, 2014

We’re not brought up to have faith in our bodies these days. Pharmaceutical companies get rich by making us feel our bodies can’t heal themselves; fashion and beauty companies get rich by making us feel our bodies aren’t attractive enough.

While of course modern medicine is a wonderful thing, and looking good is great too, the problem is when we become dependant on these external agencies to make the judgement for us, rather than trusting out body to let us know what it needs. read more...

The Tantric Lounge Radio Show - Talking Sex, Science and Spirituality

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, September 03, 2013

It starts this week!! Yes, the launch program of my new radio show, The Tantric Lounge, on Voice America’s Empowerment Channel, is this Friday!

Here's the blurb:

Join me, renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, on the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to complete empowerment: your sexuality! read more...

Sex Doesn't Have to Involve the Genitals

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, August 13, 2013

We tend to assume that sex has to involve the genitals, and that any sense of erotic or sexual arousal will need to lead to genital engagement.

This is because we’ve associated sex with reproduction for so long, and obviously you need genital interaction for reproduction.

Yet sex is not just about reproduction. In fact it’s rarely about reproduction. Sex in humans is not primarily a reproductive function. read more...

Fill Up Your Self Love Tank

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, April 09, 2013

I'm a little embarrassed to say this, but a couple of weeks ago I was in an emergency ward with a suspected heart attack. Yes, me, the supposed expert on chilling out, taking it slow, enjoying life and love....Oops!

So what happened? After all, I do regular yoga, meditation, relaxation...or do I? read more...

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