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Try A Little Tenderness

Jacqueline Hellyer - Monday, November 07, 2011

So much of my work revolves around enabling people to come together with real intimacy. I’m blessed to be able to see this in private sessions in the workshops and retreats that I run. Seeing couples sharing their love and intimacy so beautifully is an awe-inspiring experience, but it’s also sadly rare in our society.
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Sensuality Feeds Sexuality

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, October 06, 2011

You might have become one of those people who have closed off from their senses, experiencing the world primarily through the mind. It’s common enough. I don’t want to downplay the importance of cerebral activity, the mental sphere is vital to engaging in life and is important in love-making too. But making love when you’re all in your head is just not on a par with making love with full sensual awareness. read more...



Do Your Research - It's Fun!

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Sex is the one thing in life we seem to think should just happen “naturally” without any focused attention and study. This is completely absurd, and one of the reasons why people don’t have good sex lives!  read more...



Being Real

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, April 12, 2011

There's a beautiful quote from Anais Nin:

"There came a day when the flower realized that the pain of remaining tight in a bud was greater than the risk of opening up and blossoming. 

That's how people often feel about their sexuality before they come to see me. It's what I love in this work, whether it's with private clients or in the group workshops, people start to tap into their true selves and to allow themselves to be who they really are and express themselves honestly and openly.
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Make Every Stroke Count

Jacqueline Hellyer - Monday, March 14, 2011

A client of mine had attended my Blackbelt in the Bedroom seminar for men and said that afterwards he’d had the best sex ever. 
He also said:

“I applied everything you taught us. I made every stroke count. It was unbelievable!”
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Sex as Entree not Dessert

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, January 25, 2011


We tend to get into habits with sex, and one habit that is so widespread is having sex last thing at night.

Why is that? It’s the time when most people are the most tired and the least likely to want or to enjoy sex!
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Prioritising Sex

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, November 02, 2010

I was giving a talk to a large group of women at a Melbourne Cup lunch this week (wearing a fabulous hat of course). Since they were pretty much all married with kids, the discussion was primarily around how to keep up a good sex life in a long-term relationship, particularly when you’ve got babies and children.  read more...



Love in the Time of Chaos

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, February 25, 2010

There’s a great article I wrote in the latest edition of Men’s Health Magazine on Sex for Busy People.
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