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Relax Into Orgasm

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, March 18, 2016



Relax your hips,

relax your buttocks,

relax your abdomen,

breathe read more...



It All Starts With a Kiss…

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, February 19, 2016



Lips part, faces draw near, lips touch. 

Close your eyes and imagine this, feel it, fully present in your lips, in your tongue. 

Your lips are soft, testing, sensing. Your mouth is relaxed, your tongue gentle. read more...



Make Love Like You’re Playing An Instrument For Ultimate Sensual Pleasure

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 30, 2015



I was watching a video of 2Cellos playing recently. So erotic! So voyeuristic - like watching them have sex with their instruments. read more...



The Sensual Dom(me)

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, December 16, 2014

 

Sensual, tantric play heightens pleasure and so can kinky play. Put the two together and you go places - to Sub-Space and Dom-Space.

Playing with dominance and submission is about playing with the yin and yang of sexuality. When done with extreme connection and respect it is a beautiful experience. read more...



Sensual Non-Monogamy

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, September 23, 2014



I consider myself sexually monogamous, but sensually non-monogamous.

What I mean by that is that I keep my genitals to myself and my partner. For me that’s ‘sacred zone’ just for us. I have no desire to share that part of myself with anyone else.

But there’s so much more available to share and enjoy with others when you go beyond the genitals. As I say so often, sexuality is so much more than engaging our nether regions. read more...



Plugging In - Sex Without Movement

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 10, 2014



Have you ever tried having sex without any intention to orgasm? Without even moving?


Try it, in fact try it regularly – just lie together, penis inside vagina, and do nothing.

That’s it.

Not much to it really. read more...



Learning Tantra in Paradise

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, May 27, 2014



I have just had one of the most amazing experiences of my life - running the first ever five-day Luscious Lovers Retreat in Bali!




It’s hard to describe how wonderful it has been to spend that amount of time with ten couples all committed to deepening their connection and creating more beautiful and gorgeous sexual relating.

 read more...



Tantric Kink

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, July 10, 2012

I love tantra and I love kink. The two combined are what I call Sensual Kink, and I don't think it gets much better than that. So with the current interest in kink that's been generated by the overwhelming popularity of the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy, I thought I might share my thoughts.

To me, Tantra and Kink are at one of the end spectrum; and the alcohol-fueled model of sex, along with porn and raunch culture, are at the other. The former are about depth and connection, resulting in ecstatic states and altered consciousness; and the latter is about superficiality and performance-style sexuality that has little if any positive outcome from what I can see. read more...



Erotica or Sleaze

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, June 05, 2012

What is the difference between erotic and sleazy or sordid? What is the difference between when something is positive and life-enhancing sexually and when it’s not, when it detracts from life?

I once had a conversation with my 18-year old son pointing out that telling ribald jokes in front of his 10-year old sister is not good. “Oh yeah, but Mum, you’ve got dildos in your office,” he replied, implying: ”You’re not one to talk”. I pointed out that the work I do is not about dildos per se, it’s about the energy and the emotion behind its use. So you can take a dildo and turn it into something really smutty and disgusting, something that makes the users feel bad about themselves and sex in general, or you can use it a way which makes them feel good about themselves and sex. read more...



Become a Sensual Explorer

Jacqueline Hellyer - Monday, November 21, 2011


Our five senses of sight, sound, smell, taste and touch are wonderful tools to explore sensuality and eroticism. By suppressing or enhancing the senses you can create and experience all kinds of enchanting pleasures.

Here are some suggestions to inspire you in your own sensual adventures: read more...



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