If you look at all the other sex advice sites on the Internet you’d think the secret to great sex was only through sex toys. If you read the
advice in popular magazines you’d think the secret to great sex was only through being in some fabulous position. And if you read the advice
in the endless spam that gets past your email junk folder, you’d think it was only in some little blue pill.
Sure they can help. Lots of things can help, but pills, props and positions – the Three Ps - are only the icing on the cake.
You need to know how to make a great cake before you ice it.
You need to know about making the time and the place, about surrender and sensuality, about intimacy and eroticism. That’s the starting point of great sex.
Then if you want to add a few toys or try out some new positions (and possibly even try pills or sprays to aid erection – but only under medical advice), then go for it. But a dildo on its own won’t spice up... read more