Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. I am a 28-year-old bloke who was a virgin till recently when I met a great girl. But since meeting her a can’t get a complete hard-on, not even when going solo. Is it just nerves, or should I go get myself checked out?

2. I am a healthy 24-year-old unable to ejaculate during intercourse. Masturbation is no problem. Any ideas?

3. I enjoy it when my girlfriend goes down on me, but I rarely come. She has developed a bit of a complex about it. How can I get her to stop worrying about it and relax?

4. I had my first date with a lady the other night and she told me she has genital herpes (no, we didn’t have sex). Although she’s very nice, I'm hesitant about seeing her again. What are the chances of me catching it from her and are there any precautions

5. I have an addiction to phone sex. I have had this problem for at least 10 years. It is now really starting to affect my sex life with my wife and I would like to stop it and get my life back on track. My wife has no idea of the addiction is worried about

6. I have been on anti depressants for about 18 months and am having trouble maintaining an erection and finishing the job. Could this be the anti depressants or my age, I am 51?

7. I have the most amazing, intense, crazy sex with a girl I've known for years. We dated a while back, but it didn't work out and now we just "catch up" to enjoy the great sex (when we're both single). Why can't sex with anyone else reach the same

8. I have to go away on a work project for five months and my girlfriend of seven months will be 500km away. We're so in love and we'll try to see each other every few weeks, but I'm worried we'll drift apart. How can we keep the passion at the same level?

9. I just started dating a guy who is yet to make me climax. One night I faked it (I know I shouldn’t have) and now he thinks he’s on the right track in the bedroom. Do I tell him and risk shattering his ego or keep tight lipped in the hope the real thing

10. I love going down on my girlfriend, but the truth is I'm more enthusiastic than skilful. Any pointers