Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. Is it true that there are nerve endings reaching from the butt to the clitoris, and that's why spanking's supposed to feel good? I'm skeptical.

2. I've been with my girlfriend for two years. I don’t find her attractive physically anymore, but we are great together. Where do I go from here?

3. I've got this thing where I'd really like to watch my girlfriend please herself. What does that say about me and is there anything I can do to encourage her? She's pretty reluctant even though we've been together for a few years now.

4. I've never had an orgasm and am experimenting with a rabbit vibrator. I love it, but whenever it feels like I might be getting somewhere near climaxing, I can't help but pull the vibrator away. What's happening, and how can I keep going?

5. I've recently become fascinated with anal sex and am wondering how to (or whether I should at all) approach the topic with my girlfriend.

6. Lately, my girl doesn't want sex as much as she used to. We've been together two years. It takes longer to turn her on. What's happening?

7. Most of the time I last till my wife orgasms. She usually takes about five minutes. But could you share some techniques to last longer because she often expects (and deserves) multiple orgasms. Also, I find it hard to hold myself back when she screams d

8. My boyfriend is a lot shorter than me. Can you suggest any sex positions that won't make me feel Amazonian?

9. My boyfriend just revealed a fantasy that freaked me out. Should I tell him, or should I forget about it?

10. My boyfriend lives in a different city from me, so I'd like to try phone sex but I'm not sure how to initiate it - any tips?