Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. This sounds silly, but I don't seem to be able to do woman on top position well - my thighs get tired after a few goes bouncing up and down, and I can't keep a rhythm up. Any tips?

2. We are newly weds in our mid-fifties and have had a great sex life. But my wife’s lost her libido recently and she is very upset about it. We’re so in love and I don’t want to pressure her. (To be honest, it takes the pressure off me.) How can we get our

3. When my girlfriend has an orgasm, quite a lot of liquid rushes out and it leaves a big wet patch. Is this normal?

4. When my girlfriend's had a few drinks we have wild sex. But when she's sober she's really self-conscience. How can I get her to let go and lose her inhibitions all the time?

5. When receiving a blowjob from a girl for the first time, what is the most chivalrous procedure when I come to the "moment of truth"? Should I warn her? Withdraw? Tell her I’m going to shoot on her tits? Is there anything it's particularly offens