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Episode 3:12 Broadening Your Sexual Repertoire

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, October 03, 2014

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Spice alone tastes terrible, add it to something fundamentally good and it takes it to new realms of experience...
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Episode 3.11: Female Orgasmicness and the New Sexual Revolution

Jacqueline Hellyer - Saturday, September 27, 2014

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Jacqueline calls it the Third Wave of Sexuality, today’s guest Sex Geek calls it the New Sexual Revolution.  Read More

Episode 3:10: All Tied Up in the Japanese Art of Bondage

Jacqueline Hellyer - Saturday, September 20, 2014

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Shibari - the Art of Japanese Bondage has a long history. What is it exactly, what is its appeal to modern Westerners, why are we discussing it on the Tantric Lounge, why are there photos of Jacqueline being tied up and why is she having trouble speaking?  Read More

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The Man Leads, the Woman Embellishes

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, January 13, 2015

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A professional ballroom and Latin dancer told me this the other day. I was curious as to how the man, who is leading the dance, could instruct the woman, who is following, how to do all the fancy bits. The dancer explained that the man is simply leading the direction and major movements, the woman then embellishes.

I thought this was quite fascinating, and also made dancing seem less sexist, less as though the man led it all and the woman was a pretty passive accomplice. In fact, the embellishing is as important as the main moves (not to mention the fact that, as Ginger Rogers once pointed out, she did the same as Fred Astair, but backwards in high heels!) And to be able to embellish, you need to be really connected. Read More

Living La Vida Tantrika

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, January 06, 2015

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Happy new year! May 2015 embody what I playfully call ‘La Vida Tantrika’ - the Tantric life.

The Tantric approach sees joy and pleasure as essential to spirituality. It’s about harnessing the power of pleasure without attachment to that pleasure, desire without craving; finding the spiritual in all aspects of life, really living life to the full. Read More

The Ecstasy is in the Spaces In-Between

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, December 23, 2014

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I’ve been writing a lot about intense sex lately, the type that transports you on a wave of fervour, even ferocity. You’ll find the pleasure of intense passion there, but if you want ecstasy, rapture, you have to look elsewhere…

Because the ecstasy is found in the spaces in-between…

Imagine…just the barest of touches…not quite a touch at all…just the knowledge of the presence of the other… Read More

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“It is beautiful how each activity builds on the previous one like blocks, so that by the end of the evening we are engaging in the most divine magical experiences that we could never have got to otherwise!”

Themes in 2014:
January ’14 - Asking For What You Want
February ’14 - Trust & Vulnerability
March ’14 - Cathecting the Divine
April ’14 - Sound Intimacy Pt I
June ’14 - Sensing the Elements of Grace
July ’14 - Surrender
September ’14 - Sound Intimacy Pt II
October ’14 - Tantric Kink
November ’14 - Back to Basics
December ’14 - Beginner’s Mind

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