My girlfriend doesn't like doing it doggy style because she's self conscious about her bum. How can I reassure her and make her more comfortable?

Yes, Aussie girls just don’t understand how much men love their bums! When you’re grasping her hips to your loins, her back stretched out before you, all you’re thinking is “Fan-f**ing-tastic!” while there’s a good chance she’s thinking “Can he see my cellulite? Is my bum wobbling?”

So, tell her her bum looks great, in and out of bed. Do it genuinely and frequently (without over doing it) and eventually she will accept that you do think her ass is gorgeous.

At the time you can ease her discomfort by making sure the lighting is soft – keep the lights low or light candles (everyone looks great in candle-light), and maybe keep her negligee on (sex while half dressed adds extra zest and can make her feel less self-conscious).

And guys, you’re going to hear me repeat this over and over - make sure she’s really aroused before you attempt anything you know she’s self-conscious about, because the greater her arousal, the less her inhibition.

(A final tip, do this before she has an orgasm, especially one of those mind-blowing, oral sex induced orgasms, because her desire is highest and her inhibitions lowest, before the orgasm. Once she’s come, particuarly if it’s a biggie, chances are her desire will wane. Although everyone’s different, so experiment and see what works for you and your lady.)