Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. I’m 26 years old and have never had an orgasm. I don’t enjoy masturbation. When I’m in bed with my partner, he makes me feel REALLY good and just when I think I’m about to come, the feeling suddenly vanishes - it’s almost like I hit a wall and then bounce

2. I'm a virgin and, due to my lack of knowledge, I'm afraid I'll turn off my new partner when we have sex. Any advice?

3. I'm crazy for a woman 15 years younger than me. Can a woman even imagine having sex with a guy that much older than her or am I dreaming?

4. I’m not sure if I please my girlfriend when giving her oral sex as she’s never had an orgasm from it. What are your tips for satisfying her in this way?

5. I'm ready to get back in the saddle after a divorce. But I'm scared! How do I get confident about having sex with the first new person in 10 years?

6. Is it true that one in three couples don’t have sex on their wedding night? And does it matter if you don’t?

7. Is it true that there are nerve endings reaching from the butt to the clitoris, and that's why spanking's supposed to feel good? I'm skeptical.

8. I suffer from mild premature ejaculation. How can I prolong my enjoyment?

9. I used to be able to recharge after an orgasm in about 10 minutes and go again and again. But lately I can't seem cum so often and sometimes no semen will come out at all. I'm hard pressed to cum past two times. It worries me as my wife is really keen o

10. I’ve asked my partner to spice things up by “going commando” next time we go out to dinner. She just laughs and never does it – although she’s usually fairly open minded. Is it wrong to ask her that?