Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. My dad recently opened up and told me that he’s had problems with getting an erection since he had his prostate removed a year ago. It pained him to talk about it. What’s his best plan of action to overcome this?

2. My fiancé and I have been sexually active for about nine years, but lately she’s been getting a tear in the perineum area. We always do plenty of foreplay and it’s not like I’m big, nor rough. How can we prevent this from happening?

3. My fiancee loves girl-girl porn. I know she's straight. What gives?

4. My girlfriend and I had a threesome when we were both drunk. Now she's really upset with me because she said I shouldn't have let it happen. I thought she wanted to. What can I do to help her feel okay about it?

5. My girlfriend caught me watching porn and has freaked out saying she mustn't be enough for me if I have to watch it. But it's not like that. How do I help her understand?

6. My girlfriend doesn't like doing it doggy style because she's self conscious about her bum. How can I reassure her and make her more comfortable?

7. My girlfriend isn't as noisy during sex as she once was, even though she always orgasms still. I miss the wake-the-neighbours moans and groans. What's going on?

8. My girlfriend of four years will always go down on me but won't let me go down on her at all. I have never heard of a woman who doesn't like oral sex. She won't let me try other things, either - it's the same tired script. This is a constant source of f

9. My girlfriend of two years and I have always had lots of sex, but lately I just can't seem to hold my load. I use to be able to last at least 20 minutes, now it’s five. What’s going on?

10. My girlfriend says her body seems to go numb after I've been giving her oral sex for some time. Why does this happen and am I doing something wrong?