Media Column Q&As 

These questions and answers come from my regular columns in the media:

  

       

 

Frequently Asked Questions


1. My girlfriend says she has three different types of orgasms. She says they all feel different. I only really have one type. What does this mean?

2. My girlfriend sometimes lets go of some small farts when she comes. They never smell and she doesn't acknowledge it. I've never said anything. Is this normal?

3. My girlfriend stops and starts a lot when giving me blow jobs. It's great when she gets momentum, but then she'll have to stop due to gag reflex. How can we get past this?

4. My girlfriend wants us to make a sex tape. I've tried, but i just can't get into it because I'm not really comfortable with the idea. Any advice?

5. My girlfriend's sex drive is a lot higher than mine. What can I do to even things up?

6. My husband's stressed at work and it's stopping him from getting an erection. Solution?

7. My new girlfriend gets upset whenever I ejaculate anywhere except inside her, but occasionally I like to turn a little Jackson Pollock and decorate a variety of her more alluring body parts. Any advice?

8. My new girlfriend uses a vibrator. Should I be offended? I think it's bigger than I am!

9. My partner and I can't get our sessions under one hour. He refuses to come till I do. Any ideas on how to speed things up? (And yep, we already know all about vibrators.)

10. My partner has never had a problem with lubrication, even with quickies, till about two months ago. Now she says she feels very turned on, but her body isn’t responding, ie, she’s not getting wet. Why is this happening and what can we do to remedy this?