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#128: DIY Porn - It’s A Fun Way to Add Spice to Your Love Life

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, April 28, 2015



Lights - camera - action! Starring in your own porn show can be a fun way to spice up your sex life.

With smart phones these days you can set up your own scene easily - just place it somewhere with a good angle and off you go. Film yourselves having normal sex, or set up a role play, whatever takes your fancy.

Then when you’re done, keep it for posterity, or watch and delete. If you’re shy you don’t even have to watch, just being filmed might be erotic enough for you.

If you’re more of an extrovert and like the idea of sharing your footage, there are plenty of websites where you can post your DIY porn. You absolutely don’t have to though, it can be simply a fun bit of private spice for the two of you.

The same applies with an erotic photo shoot. You can turn it into a role play where one of you is the ‘professional photographer’ and one the ‘model’; or do a straight shoot simply because you like taking photos of each other. Again, in terms of what you do with the photos, well there’s the full spectrum from deleting immediately through to posting online. That’s completely up to you and your personal taste.

And if you prefer your DIY porn live, use mirrors! Mirrors on the walls, ceiling, wardrobe doors, even as a bedhead can be brilliant. In certain positions you can watch the whole action, at other times you just get enticing glimpses. A mirror is particularly good for watching your partner’s face in positions where you’re not facing each other.

Hey, combine video with mirrors - see how creative you can get!

Set it up…aaaand Action!




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