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Love in the Time of COVID-19
Q&A: My Husband Can't Keep an Erection, and He Smokes Lots of Marajuana
Q&A: My Partner Doesn't Climax from Oral Sex and I'm Worried
Meditate Your Way to Great Sex
Q&A: My Partner Doesn't Like Kissing - what to do?
Communing - deep intimate connection
Q&A: We Want to Try a Threesome - how do we do it safely?
On Being A Human in a Female Body
Q&A: How Do We Connect After So Much Stress?
Get A Life! Your Sex Drive Needs the Dopamine
Q&A: My Husband Is Having An Affair and I'm Relieved
Stocking Up Your Love Larder - the key to spontaneous sex
Q&A: How Do I Flex My New Found Interest in Sex?
Intercourse as Foreplay
Q&A: Fun in the Sun - How to Have Safe Holiday Sex
Bake Your Cake Before You Ice It - the foundation of great sex
Q&A: Is It Normal to Want Sex Twice A Day?
How Has Sex Helped You Grow - Research Participants Wanted!
Q&A: How Do I Meet My Sexual Needs in a Sexless Marriage?
Optimal Sexuality - Reaching Your Sexual Potential
Q&A: How Do I Get My Mojo Back?
It's the Sum of the Small Things
Q&A: How Do We Reignite Our Love Life?
Relationship Vitamins
I See You as Lover - the importance of attention in loving well
The Pleasure of A Soft Cock
Make Every Stroke Count
You Can Make Love With Just a Kiss
Finding the 'More' - the Spiritual Dimensions of Sex
How to Stay In Love
Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 2: How
Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 1: What
Simple Sex is Good Sex
Solo Sex: Mindful Masturbation
Own the Crone
Porn Star versus Prude
“When One is Pretending, the Whole Body Revolts”
Non-Linear Love-Making: the Picnic Approach to Sex
Make Your Bedroom A Sanctuary
Sexy Debriefing
Getting "Love Drunk"
Make-Over Your Sex Life
Be Real, Express Freely
The Fairy Tales Got It Wrong
Are Humans Naturally Monogamous - and if not, what does that mean?
Gigglegasms
Evolve with the Seven Elements of Sexuality
Getting to Sex can be like getting to the Gym
Intensity Repels, Enticement Attracts. Like Chocolate Cake.
Turn Yourself On and the World Turns On To You
Therapy is Composting Your Sh*t
Are You Flat-lining or Surfing in Life?
How to Avoid Spiritual Bypassing in Sex & Relationships
The Clitoris Is Not an On-Off Button
The Three Phases of Conscious Relationship Evolution
Allow Self-Indulgence
Are You Relationship-Oriented?
Tantra: Sex Through Non-Sex
A Multitude of Orgasmic Possibilities
Sink In to Sync In
Penises - does size really matter?
A History of Sexual Misinformation
The Adolescent Male Masturbatory Model of Sex
Merge Sex & Love Energies for Potent Connection
Sex is a Normal Part of Life
We Judge ‘Normal’ Sex Based on Our Own Experiences
How Do I Love Thee? Let me count the ways...
Project 'Great Sex'
Beforeplay Suggestions
Foreplay and Be-Foreplay
How to Heighten Sensory Pleasure
The Bedroom is for Expression, Not Suppression
The Three Types of Sex All Couples Need
Things that make you go 'mmm' and things that make you go 'ngh'
Libido - the Interplay of Desire & Arousal
The Good and Bad of Porn
Bad Communication Styles - The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
My Journey to Becoming A Transpersonal Sexologist
Seven Sex Tips for Busy People
Penises Love A Soft Touch
Share Before You Fix
The Best Thing A Father Can Do
The Exquisiteness of a Relaxed Vagina
The Look of Love - Eye-gazing
Quanta of Deliciousness
How to Maintain the “Mmm-Factor”
How to Have 'Dirty' Sex With Someone You Love
Seven Benefits of Attending A LoveLife Couples Tantra Retreat
Make Sex Your Hobby
Partnered Sex is Not Solo Sex for Two
Melting Moments
Your Partner Can’t Be Everything to You
Sex is Good, Sleep is Better!
Savour Sex
How To Live A Tantric Life
Be Kind - It Works
How to Push Your Sexual Boundaries
Good Rest=Good Sex
We Need Bliss
Being Sexually Receptive is Not Being Sexually Passive
So Much Love
A High-Level Relationship is a High-Maintenance Relationship
Sex as Spiritual Practice
Playing with the Yin and Yang of Sex
The Yin and Yang of Sex
Third Level Love-Making
Vive La Difference!
What Is A Marriage Sabbatical and Why Take One?
The Basic Sexual Unit is One
A Penis is for Connection, not Penetration
Men Have Not Evolved to 'Sow Their Seed Widely'
Big Sex is Beautiful Sex
Women Are Not 'Naturally' Monogomous
Sex Therapy & Couples Retreats- What to do if You have a Reluctant Partner
The Chilled Build - How to Get in the Mood for Sex
Mums and Dads Need “Cuddle Time”
Giving Good Head Does Not Mean Simulating A Vacuum Cleaner
Is Porn Making Women Less Feminine?
Is Porn Making Men Less Masculine?
Rough Sex
The Three Pillars of Love
Seven Benefits of Attending a Couples Retreat
Ban Penetration!
Solo Cultivation - Mindful Masturbation for Men
Our Bodies Thrive on Pleasure
Love, Death and Vulnerability
Toys for Grown-Ups
Backdoor Pleasures - how to enjoy anal sex
The Sexual Glutton vs The Sexual Gourmet
Practice Expressing Your Feelings For Greater Connection and Better Sex
Let’s Talk About Our Sex
Love Your Breasts
Ditch the Sex Myths
Relax Into Orgasm
When A Woman Is Free To Be Herself Sex Takes On A Spiritual Dimension
It All Starts With a Kiss…
The Ecstasy is in the Spaces In-Between
Radical Honesty
Strength in Softness, Softness in Strength
Your New Year's Resolution - Have Better Sex
Peace, Pleasure and Goodwill to All
A Beautiful Vulva is Like A Luscious Hamburger
Come From A Place of "Yes!"
Finger Finesse
Reluctance is Not Frigidity, It’s Body Intelligence - She’s Not Ready!
Love Thy Partner
Tantra: The Art of Mindful Sex
‘Invitation’ not ‘Penetration’
Female Bodies Are Sexual Pleasure Machines
Neuroplasticity - Moulding Your Brain for Better Sex
Awaken Your Vagina for the Kind of Sex All Women (and their Partners) Deserve
Bonking on the Right Side of the Brain
Have Sex with God…
So Many Boxes - So Little Freedom
How to Move Forward When Your Partner Has Betrayed You
The Reason Why Humans Are So Sexual
Men are from Earth, Women are from Earth
Make Love Like You’re Playing An Instrument For Ultimate Sensual Pleasure
How to Talk to Kids About Sex - and why you need to
Inviting A Third (or fourth or more…) - the right way to play
Viagra for Women - why the pink pill is wrong, wrong, wrong
Does Size Really Matter?
Our Bodies Are the Best Sex Toy Ever
Honour Your Genitals for Exquisite Sex - the Why and How
Tango Tantra - Make Your Love Life Blissfully Connected
Move Beyond Sleaze and Shame and Discover The Third Wave of Sexuality
DIY Porn - It’s A Fun Way to Add Spice to Your Love Life
Don’t Fake It Till You Make It - ‘Cause You Won’t Make It
Give Your Man Absolute Pleasure...Try Prostate Massage
Don't Spend a Fortune on Toys - There’s A Sex Store in Your Pantry!
Can Fisting Be Fabulous?
Turning Sex Lives Upside-Down - It’s My Life’s Work!
We’re All Individuals! There are Spectra of Sexuality
The Way of the Householder - how to make the everyday sublime
Ten Reasons Why Married Women Have Affairs, and What To Do When She Does
Mutual Pleasure Requires Mutual Responsibility - how to expand your sex play safely
Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down - how to add restraint to your sex life
What’s Your Eroticism - Intimate, Wild, Fun?
10 Tips For Your Vagina
The Man Leads, the Woman Embellishes
Unblock Sexual Energy for Greater Love
The Sensual Dom(me)
All My Appearances Talking Sex on ABC Nightlife
Explore Your Fantasies
Dress-Ups! How to have fun with role-play.
Consensual Non-Monotony
Luscious Woman Online Program Released
Consensual Non-Monogamy
Languid 69
Sensual Non-Monogamy
Become a Great Lover, a Black Belt in the Bedroom
Meet the Seven Sex Goddesses in my new book of educational erotica!
Make Love to Yourself - Mindful Masturbation for Women
30 Nights of Nookie!
Celibacy, Sexuality and Spirituality
Bloglovin
Spice Alone Tastes Terrible...
Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Plugging In - Sex Without Movement
Growing Better With Age
Learning Tantra in Paradise
Time Apart Can Be Erotic
When He’s Lost Interest
Q&A: Why Doesn’t Porn Do It for Me?
If Sex Hurts, Change What You’re Doing
Some Words for the Lower Desire Partner
Trust Your Body
Subtle Shifts to Great Sex
Love is all so there’s no need to fear the dark
Planning for Pleasure
Make the Lead-Up Erotic
Advice from Japanese Grandmothers on How to Be Beautiful
If You Want A Mature Relationship You Have To Be Mature
Take Your Penis for a Walk!
How Often Should We Have Sex?
Know Your Sexual Rhythm
Slay the Pink Elephants!
An Erection Does Not Have To Be Serviced
The Tantric Lounge Radio Show - Talking Sex, Science and Spirituality
What Do Men Love Best About Sex?
Sex Doesn't Have to Involve the Genitals
Fetishes are Fine
Obligation Sex is Self-Imposed Low-Level Sexual Trauma
Winter's a Time for Sexual Growth
My Ejaculation Opens the Door to Deeper Orgasm
To Come or Not To Come
Fill Up Your Self Love Tank
Beyond Orgasm
The Number One Secret to Good Sex
Get A Whole New View of Sex
The Cup of Tea Approach to Sexual Self-Coaching
Renegotiate Your Contract
Trust Means Being OK with Not Knowing
Sex and Our Multiple Brains
An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away
Is “Good Enough” Sex Good Enough?
Teaching Sex Therapists Tantra
Observing Love
There Is Always A Lower Desire Partner
Crafting the Balance
Sexual, Spiritual Business Leaders
Positive Messages in 50 Shades of Grey
Playing with Pleasure and Pain
Tantric Kink
Pelvic Floor Pleasures - Advanced
Three Good Reasons To Read Erotica
Erotica or Sleaze
Pelvic Floor Pleasures - The Basics
Tools for Self-Validation from a Luscious Woman
Mastering The Art Of Vaginal Stimulation
G, A and Ohhhh-Spots
The Tantric Quickie
Why A Masculine Man Would Want A Choosy Woman
One Couple's "Kilimanjaro Walk" to Sexual Reconnection
Feminine Receptivity and the Go-Getter Kind of Gal
The Etiquette of Observing Breasts
What is Sex Therapy, Sex Coaching and Tantra Teaching?
The World is Waking to Conscious Sex
Become a Sensual Explorer
Try A Little Tenderness
The Sensual Man
Sensuality Feeds Sexuality
The Beauty of Conflict
Communicate - Human's Can't Read Minds!
A Woman's Body Opens In Stages
Breathe Well: Live & Love Well
Phone Sex
Do Your Research - It's Fun!
True Intimacy
Unconditional Love Requires Self-validation
Fire and Water: The Masculine and Feminine Sexual Energies
Men Need a Muse Not Just A Vagina
High Libido Women Keep Their Water Energy Simmering
Teaching Tantra in Thailand
Chill Out in Your Sanctuary
Being Real
Twelve Benefits of Sex
The Core of Tantra: Real Sex
Sex as Entree not Dessert
Prioritising Sex
The Awesomeness of Men Who Are Present
Not-So-Secret Men's Business
Could We Have A Festival of Sexuality?
The Breadth of Sexuality & The Importance of Fun
Three Things a Masculine Man Needs
Valuing the Masculine
Valuing the Feminine
Face the Darkness to Find the Light
Sex is the Base of Being Human
Raise Your Sexual Energy
How Men Can Circulate Sexual Energy
The Great G-Spot & Female Ejaculation Debate!
Sexual Pleasure is the Great Equalizer
Grow Up and Open Up Australia
What to do when He Can't Come
How To Consume An Ice-Cream - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 2
How To Eat A Peach - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 1
Love in the Time of Chaos
Become a Blackbelt in the Bedroom!
Partnered Yoga - Erotic Connection
The birth of my Blog - with some underlying philosophical ramblings
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