Fairy tales are not all ‘happy ever after’ there’s a lot of wickedness in them, and that wickedness can be alluring.
Children love wickedness and adults can too…
Wickedness often manifests in power plays. Handing over power can be erotic and receiving the power can be erotic.
Keep in mind though, this can only be erotic if there is safety and respect. And this means a lot of preparation in talking and understanding and planning. Otherwise it’s abuse, and there’s nothing positive about abusive wickedness.
But erotic wickedness, now there’s something potentially to luxuriate in.
If this doesn’t appeal at all, then move on to the next blog post. But if it has you feeling curious, then read on…
Hand over power to your partner for your shared indulgence…and see what wickedness can ensue!
Such as...
- Tie him up and slather cream all over him and slowly slowly lick it off…Oh, the exquisite torture!
- Order her to bend over and tease her backside…Oh, so naughty!
- Objectify your partner, they’re no more than a living sex doll, there to lavish your desires upon…Oh, the thrill of it all!
- Role play master and slave and see how far you can push your ‘slave’ to indulge you in sexual indulgences; or maybe the slave is the one who suggests and enacts the indulgences. Really, who is pleasuring whom…
Tapping into your ‘wicked’ side, when done positively, is tapping into your erotic imagination. It can give you a charge, a thrill, which can be expressed inventively, creatively.
Just as the fairy tale story-tellers have enchanted and delighted readers for ages, so can you enchant and delight each other when you let flow your erotic wickedness…
