A spanking can be deliciously erotic.
When it’s done well.
And that means sensually…
And of course with consent.
So, how do you give a good spanking?
You can add the odd spank to your regular sex play, or you can set up a whole spanking scene. Like this:
The lead-up is important, the spankee has to be in the right space to want the spanking. Their bum needs to be swinging or jiggling in anticipation.
Ask the spankee to assume a position where their bottom is sticking out: that could be leaning against a wall, over the arm of a chair, on all fours on the bed, even over your lap if that is mutually arousing.
Depending on your shared eroticism, the spanking could be part of a role play or it could be a delicious part of your mutual pleasure.
Warm the spankee’s bottom up first with rubs and very light spanks. This gets the blood to the surface and reduces the painful element.
You can rub over the rest of their body too for a whole body experience, or just focus on the bottom.
When you feel the spankee is ready, start with one medium level spank. Watch their reaction. Go back to the rubbing and fondling. Pause. Give another medium level spank. Watch their reaction.... read more