For generations we raised our girl children to think they’re not sexual, that they shouldn’t be sexual, and if they were sexual - stoning or burning
them to death or locking them away in insane asylums. Women didn’t have a chance to explore their sexuality, and neither did their partners.
So, with no alternative, when a man married he basically kept on doing with his wife what he’d been doing with himself for years - masturbating. Since
puberty the adolescent boy had been stroking his penis as fast as he could until he ejaculated. So when he got a female partner, not knowing any better,
he kept doing that inside her.
Essentially men were masturbating inside their wives.
So the standard approach has three parts:
1. Find yourself aroused - you have to be horny before you start.
2. Stroke genitals rapidly - it's all about the shagging
3. Have an orgasm - we all know the 'rule' that sex ends when the man ejaculates - right?
I call this theAdolescent Male Masturbatory (AMM) Model of Sex.
It’s what we in the West have done for millennia.
Then, a mere few decades ago, we had the sexual revolution. Suddenly society decided that sex was good and that it was OK for women to want and enjoy... read more