I was giving a talk to a large group of women at a Melbourne Cup lunch this week (wearing a fabulous hat of course). Since they were pretty much all married with kids, the discussion was primarily around how to keep up a good sex life in a long-term relationship, particularly when you’ve got babies and children.
Next week I’m giving a similar talk in Newcastle on how to have a good sex life once kids come along.
One of the key messages is that you need to prioritize sex. You need to accept it as an important part of your relationship and then work on it. It’s like anything in life: it doesn’t just happen.
If you want to be healthy you have to focus on your health and work on it.
If you want to be wealthy you have to focus on wealth and work on it.
And if you want a good loving, healthy and rewarding sexual relationship you have to focus on it and work on it too.
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